Sense of Shame
The Reflector – February 2010
Written by: L. A. Stauffer
In a recent interview an actress who recently did her first nude scene in a movie explained her discomfort
the first time she disrobed on the set before the director, cameramen, and other members of the cast. She
explained how reluctant she was, how awkward she felt — as though she at first felt a sense of shame. She
then noted how much more comfortable she became and how much easier it was with each take and repeat of the
scene as the director worked to get it just right.
This illustrates how in time, with continued practice, any person can become shameless and insensitive to
shameful actions. It has happened in this country with fornicators, abortionists, homosexuals, lewd
dancers, divorces for frivolous reasons, and nudity and filthy speech on TV and in the movies. Our sense of
shame as a nation is all but lost and we, as Israel of old, no longer know how to blush (Jeremiah 6:15;
8:12).
But let’s get back to the subject of nudity. Shame has been associated with nakedness since the sin of Adam
and Eve, who hid themselves in embarrassment and tried to cover their bodies with fig-leaf aprons. Jesus,
in the book of Revelation, joins shame to nakedness a couple of times (Revelation 3:18; 16:15). And in the
case of Adam and Eve, God replaced their inadequate aprons with coats of skin which, according to Wilson’s
Old Testament Word Studies, were garments that generally had sleeves and came to the knees (p. 81). It is
also interesting that God made undergarments for the priests that covered the thighs to hide the nakedness
that could be seen under their outer garments when they climbed the high steps up to the altar (Exodus
28:40-42).
All of this should be put in the context of marriage — the honorable and pure relationship in which men and
women may view one another’s bodies and join themselves in a one-flesh relationship (Hebrews 13:4). Jesus
made it clear that viewing the body of one to whom you are not married and lusting after it is impure and
adulterous in heart and thought (Matthew 5:27,28). Men and women are, as a result, responsible to clothe
themselves in a way that such illicit thinking is not provoked.
This begins with a sense of shame and sensitivity about exposing breasts, private parts, and thighs to
someone other than your mate. This, we believe, is the meaning of nakedness in the Bible. Women need a
sense of shame about wearing low-cut and short clothing which expose areas of their bodies that only their
spouse has a right to look upon. And so it should be with the men.
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